Anonymous asked: I'm a girl and I'm questioning my sexuality. I am definitely attracted to guys both sexually and romantically. But I'm only really attracted to girls sexually. I mean, I don't think I could have a relationship and fall in live with a girl. I know how wrong it is to only use people for sex, but I can't really tell what I feel. I've also never dated or even kissed anyone, so could I just be confused or deapatate for sex? Also does being only sexually attracted to girls constitue as being bi?
Alex: There’s a word for that, if you’re looking for a label (not everyone is)– Bisexual heteroromantic. You could be confused and horny, but you definitely don’t need to have sex to figure our your sexual orientation.
Will: True, or call yourself LOOSE. I do. Screw labels. Joking, Alex hit it on the head. You don’t have to have sex in order to know.
Anonymous asked: --- I know my siblings wouldn't care but I have a weird relationship with my dad. I don't think he would like it if I told him. I just don't want to disappoint him even more than I have. I'm not sure what I should do. I always thought I'd wait to find a girl I like and then tell them but I don't know. Advice?
Alex: Well, first of all, we have sort of a cardinal rule for coming out. Don’t come out if your bodily safety and/or security of home would be in danger. I, personally, only came out after I got my first girlfriend. Plus, it is possible to tell your sisters and not your dad. Maybe tell your siblings or make it public on Facebook or wherever else your dad can’t see it, see if that helps your confidence.
Will: I agree, you should come out when you’re ready. Be also mind ready. You don’t want to go in there day dreaming just to get yourself ass banged by reality.
Anonymous asked: I'm bi or pansexual or whatever. I don't particularly like labeling myself however, I'm not out to my family or friends. At the moment the point is moot since I'm not dating anyone but I've been asked before if I'm into other women. It's always been after a rant about human rights and marriage laws and whatnot. I've avoided the question by deflection and using the "You don't have to be gay to care about their rights." But I feel like I'm a lying liar and I hate it.---
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Anonymous asked: I'm bisexual, even though I've been in a relationship with e same woman for the past 7 years! I love her, but I do like thinking about another guy in bed with us when we have sex! I loved e feel of a dildo in me! I've never had a real relationship with a man, but whenever I talk about it, she changes the topic of the conversation! I just wanna shout this: I'M A BISEXUAL!!!
Will: I don’t know how to answer this. It seems that your hooked/shacked up without tasting both worlds.
Edit: I hope the other girls answer this!
jane-hailey-watson asked: Sorry, I know you probably get this a lot, but I think I might be falling for my best friend. And, until recently, I thought I was straight. And she's not making things easy. I buy her roses ( I've not actually told her), give her the occasional gift ... Friendly things. We sometimes get caught by others holding hands ... Again, friendly gesture. And I'm falling hard. Any advice on getting over her, cos I know boys are her only area.
Will: Quit chasing someone that isn’t into girls. You will hurt yourself. Feelings get worse if you go on with this behavior. You’ll even think that you’re in a relationship, or that she is in love with you. Think smartly not stupidly.
Today in Anderson Cooper making people look stupid simply by asking questions: This lady. It may be the best entry in this subgenre of news since this video. (via pbump)
Everybody should always be watching all of this clip all the time.
Anonymous asked: Well um i don't know how to say this but i'm bi and no one knows i think i should tell my family and friends but i don't think my friends would want to hang out with me and i know one half of my family would be like okay abd the other half would be like why i don't know what to do please help
Will: you’re worrying about not be accepted and also left alone just because of your sexuality. My answer is to tell who you want. If they react differently or odd over your lifestyle, than that’s a easy way to eliminate the bad from your life. It’s stings for many of my close friends also stopped being close just because of me being bisexual. I learned though that these people who were “close friends” are the ones who would have not supported in the future. This also goes for family.
K: and people who are actually in the LGBTQ community argue that trans* people don’t completely need and deserve the support of the rest of the LGBTQ community more than any other part of it?
EDIT: important information relating to the statistics givenAs the author emphasises, all suicide is tragic. The stats here are simply offered to highlight how some communities suffer pressures from society of the magnitude that result in such shocking suicide attempt rates.
Gay Christian: Massachusetts Celebrates 8 Years of Marriage Equality!!
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